Your Way OutApril 08, 2015
You don't need to feel oblige to fill the expectations of other people all the time. Don't do it because it is what expected from you, do it for your own wellness, do it because it what makes you happy. You're also a human being just like everybody else so it's okay to make mistakes. If your friend is crying over a break up in the middle of the night, and you have a final exam the next day, it's okay to choose the test and be there for your friend after the test is over. You don't have to be the one who always sacrifices. If you've promised someone that you would see a movie with them but stayed up all night coughing your brains out, it's okay to reschedule. They will surely understand if they are really your friends. They will appreciate it more if you are with them because you want to not because you are forced to.
You are your own person, you have brains of your own, don't let people dictate what is right for you or what will make you happy because the only person you are born to nurture is yourself. You also have your own life, your own problems to deal with. I'm not saying for you to be selfish but it's also okay to think about yourself once in a while because at the end of every day, you have no one but yourself. You do not need to feel obligated to sacrifice your own self for the sake of someone else all of the time.
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